While Angel and me were on very good terms other on our first date, and we definitely had a crush on each other afterwards, the following weeks were really...troublesome.
Angel told me later that her relationship with her boyfriend has nearly reached the end of the line, but she wasnt ready to end a long-term relationship for a new one (with me). We talked a lot or wrote heaps of short messages, but we did go round in circles. On one day she wanted to be with me and break up with her boyfriend, the other day she wanted told me she cannot leave him. This went on like that for several weeks. "I want to be with you!" - "But I cant leave my BF!" - "I want to be with you!" - "But I cant leave my BF!"
Like I said...troublesome for both of us.
Then came the point when I had enough of this and tried to take a step further, so I invited her to my place.
> I pick her up at the local train station
> We go to my room
> Again a lot of fun and a lot to talk about
> Its autumn, so there is an early sunset
> We both sit on my couch
> All of a sudden, Angel begins to unbutton my shirt
> Ok...if she wants to, theres nothing special about it
> She undresses her top and bra too
> Oooooook.....
> She cuddles with me for some time
> Unbuttons my trousers
> Shit...! But thats it, she wouldnt go any further. Its still our 2nd date
> She takes of the rest of her clothes
> SHIT!
> She stares at me like a tiger looks at prey
> Did I say shit before?
> Angel fondles over my body with her hands
> Where is this going to end?
> Suddenly it seems that she realises what she is doing
> She turns beet-red
> Puts on her cloth in light speed
> Is really embarassed
> Looks cute as hell
> Leaves soon afterwards, still pretty rattled
In fact I did not take advantage of the situation. In retrospective, it would have been very easy for me to do so, but I think I am way too much a gentleman for that. Hm, maybe this, and the fact that the situation took me COMPLETELY off-guard. I mean, 2nd date...?
But well, I liked what I saw there, and it was hard for me to let her go. And after Angel had left, I came to the conclusion that the way she behaved showed that she wanted to be with me. Yeah, that must be it!
Next text message from her the following day: "Cant leave my BF, will go on holiday with him and my family."
MFW
Gotta love dem girls.
ReplyDeleteHow did you feel going on dates with her when she still had a boyfriend? Did you meet him before?
At the beginning it wasn't my intention to interfere with their relationship. For years it was fine to be nothing more than friends, but after our first appointment something changed for both of us. Its nothing I am..."proud" of, cause its not a nice way, but I never urged her to quit her relationship and become my GF. Angel told me herself some time ago that she did this because her relationship with her exBF was at an end, but she was torn between a new relationship with me and the question if she should give up her old relationship that easily.
DeleteAnd no, I didn't meet him before, and I haven't till now. I'm kind of glad about that, it would have made things way more complicated.
You're not going to want to hear this but the two red flags I've read are how she hit you for you not liking her hair and how she couldn't leave her boyfriend for you. There is so much wrong with that I can't even begin to tell you how more problems will arise.
ReplyDeleteSeriously dude, I'd get away, very fast.
Isnt there a misunderstanding? The beginning of our relationship was in August 2006, and that means Angel and me are now in a rewarding relationship with each other for more than 5 years. Its not like all of this happened yesterday. But you have a point: There really was a time back then when I thought that this is crazy and I have to stop this.
DeleteI'll tell more about that in the next post about the beginning of our relationship, you will see.
I dont know, she sounds emotionally unstable and has shown to be physically abusive to you in the past. For your sake I really hope you don't let her walk all over you.
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